Shirley Ann Stanton

17th November 1936 - 24th April 2025
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Frasers Funeral Directors, cnr Esk & Doon Sts, Invercargill
Thursday 1 May 2025, 11:00AM
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Stanton, Shirley Ann  (née Solomon), formerly Wilmshurst, 88, of Invercargill, passed away peacefully with family on Thursday, April 24. Born in Timaru, November 17, 1936, to Joyce & Abiatha "Dreamy" Solomon, Shirley was a stalwart of Southland Netball & a dedicated Special Needs Educator.

Loving wife of the late Lex Wilmshurst & James Stanton. Shirley is survived by her children: Peter, Maree, David, Steven & Alan; much loved & cared for: John Finn, Paul, Boyd, Jayne & Imogene; and numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Also survived by siblings: Alan, Lindsay, Sharon, Donna & John, predeceased by Maurice & Terrill.

A memorial service will be held at Frasers Funeral Directors, cnr Esk & Doon Sts, Invercargill, Thursday, May 1, at 11:00 am, followed by burial at Gore Charlton Cemetery. Digital messages may be left at Shirley's tribute page at frasersfunerals.co.nz/tributes, where a livestream of the service will also be available.

Messages

RIP Mum
I remember the day my dad introduced me to you and you took us under your wing and protected us. You gave our family so much love and guidance as we grew into young adults. We were lost souls however you gave us a home and another family and another new brother Alan who is the apple of everyone’s eye. I am so proud of him and how he has made an amazing tribute for you. It’s your time to rest. Love you
Jayne Finn, Australia
Offering our condolences on behalf of the Otago-Southland Shirley Group. Shirley was a lovely, cheeky lady with a heart of gold and we enjoyed her company at our gatherings over the years. May you draw comfort from the many happy memories you shared of her most remarkable life. God Bless

Shirley Cranstoun
Otago-Southland Shirley Group
Otago-Southland Shirley Group, Waianiwa
Thinking of all the family at this sad time. Shirley you were a true ,lovely lady. RIP beautiful soul. ❤️❤️❤️
Sharryn Sexton, Invercargill
Our Sincere condolences to Shirley’s family and extended family on your sad loss..
Michael and Paulette Solomon
P Solomon, Christchurch
We are saddened to hear of Shirley’s passing. Sincere condolences to all her children, rest easy sister.
Johnny, Invercargill
I'm hearing lots of wonderful stories from your life Nana. You were one amazing woman and I'm truly honoured to be your Grandaughter! Love you Nana.
Hugs to all the family. Xx
Kareena Wilmshurst , Lakes Entrance
She carried her burden effortlessly
A child in her arms,
a child before her,
a child beside her
and a child behind her.

She led and followed with soft feet,
nurturing hands
and a longbow at the ready.
She could catch, throw, aim and
plough.
In spring she danced
with the children in the fields,
trailing petals from the flowerchains
she crowned us with.

She watched everything quietly.
Her corn grew tall.



When we raise our goblet hands
to drink the clear, crystal waters
flowing free in our pastures.
we know who we are.

We are your family.
Imogene, Wellington
Rest in Paradise Nana. See ya there!!
Love ya! X
Cassie, Hervey Bay
Dear Peter, Marie, David, Steven and Alan
My sincere love and deep feelings thinking of you at this time. Your mum was awesome. Shirley was a favourite friend of mums (Esme) for all those years. I remember fondly going to your place when I was little, and hanging with the Wilmshurts and the Finnies, sometimes getting up to no good (usually Stevens fault). I watched Shirleys farewell stream, I thought Jayne and I were the only ones who snuck out the window.
I loved being around Shirley and her whanau. Shirley had a way that made me feel understood, warm, and inviting. Much aroha...Patricia
Patricia, Brisbane, Australia
My condolences To Steven, and family for your loss. R.I.P Shirley
Tracy Reihana , Gold Coast Queensland
Many fond memories of Shirley at Southland Netball doing the draw with many laughs and serious times, an excellent referee to and great at praise!
Elaine Sloan, Wanaka