Matetau (Max) Tuliau

21st October 1965 - 18th August 2020
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Due to Covid-19 restrictions attendance is by invitation, however please join the service via livestream frasersfunerals.co.nz/live-streams
Friday 4 September 2020, 10:30AM

TULIAU, Matetau (Max): Passed away after a long and courageous battle on Tuesday 18th August, 2020, aged 54 years. Dearly loved husband to Tina, devoted father and father-in-law of Jahna and Tamai, Michaela and Shannon, Kyle, Isaac and Mary, beloved son of the late Vainu’u, and Aiomanu (George) and son-in-law of Brenda and the late Raymond Donovan, loved nephew of Alae and Kathy Tuu’u, cherished brother and brother-in-law to Kuinivia, Evitia and Andrew, Solomona and Leah, Fili, Dean and Tania, and David and Melody, and treasured poppa to Grayson, Mya, Jimi, Oliver, Isla and Max and dearly loved uncle to all his nieces and nephews.

The service for Max will be held on Friday 4 September 2020 commencing at 10.30am. Due to Covid-19 requirements the funeral for Max will be by invitation, however his service will be live-streamed at frasersfunerals.co.nz/live-streams

 

Messages

My thoughts and prayers are with Max's family. I have very fond memories of Max (and Solly) from our childhood and school days. Im struggling to believe one so young and so good has been taken so soon. All my love, Sheryl Dunick (Nee Flannery)
Sheryl Dunick, Invercargill
Max a legend,who knew so many people and made so many peoples life's better and happier. A special man and a special friend. Respect to his family. Love you mate. Lloyd
Lloyd McLean, Invercargill
Sad to hear Max lost his battle. Condolences to your family.
We had Awesome Parties in Dipton Street back in the day!
Everyone who knew you will have lots of beautiful memories!
Fly High and RIL.
Sharee Giles, Perth Australia
Max.........You put up such a huge fight...It was so lovely to see you on the odd times I ran into you, when you were having one of those wonderful days and you were feeling reasonably good. I remember the last time and you greeted me with a big smile and a hug. Rest In Peace Max. May God hold you in the palm of his hand. Condolences to all your family, they'll miss you dearly.
Fiona Mathiassen, Bluff
You were a great man max we had some great times working together and you ran some impressive jobs. You were taken far too soon and we will miss your smiling face and humour we send our condolences to Tina and the family RIP Max
Alan Kerr, Winton
I always knew I would see you on the big screen.
This Friday is the day, albeit no sequel. Going out worldwide over the web. In true Max style.
It doesn’t surprise me you needed a few takes and practice runs.
Taking things seriously was never your strong suit.
I was hoping that there was going to be more to the story, but not to be.
I laughed when Tina told me what you said to Michaela towards the end,
You woke up and Michaela said, are you alright Dad.
You replied, Yea, just having trouble dying.

There are countless stories, over many years, I could share, but at the end of the day, I want to keep them for me and you.
My life changed forever the day we meet.
I’ve always considered you as family, my brother.
No regrets, only love.

Myself and Steve, AKA the Frogalow, (that is half Frog half Buffalo according to you) were lucky enough to spend some time towards the end on that thing, face messenger, on the interweb. I will treasure those, lets call them, “conversations”, forever.
Steve got to see you a week or so before you past and it was awesome for guys to get together for the sole reason and agree that “I” was number one in your books. I have the photo to prove it.
Tried to add it but it won't let me, technology!

To the kids,
Jahna, Michaela, Kyle and Isaac to see you all as adults and as peers last year on one of Max’s warmups, is something that will stay with me always.
The love was something to see. The look in Max’s eyes told the story, pride was just beaming out of him and I believe that is what turned him around, then, albeit for a short time. The little road trip we had was something special and will stay with me always.
Max is, not was, my brother and you are all welcome under my roof.

To my darling Tina.
Your heart…….your soul…….. your strength, is something that just cannot be understated.
You are the reason we have had our friend for just that little bit longer.

Your partner, your love, your best friend has gone now.
Lucky for the Frogalow and myself, you were on the last call we had a couple of days before Max past or it would have been as always, shits and giggles at our expense, again.
The video calls we had with him towards the end were awesome.
The fight is over now and all seems lost but your journey is still moving forward.
Take some time for yourself and when it’s time we all need Tina back.
I have and always valued your love and friendship and have been proud to have yourself and Max in a very small circle of my closest friends.
I look forward to the day we meet again and share a tear together.
Love always.

Let me finish now, just by saying, I love you my brother and I will see again, but to soon.
My heart is full for having you in it.
I will love you always my friend, rest in peace.
Sarge, Melbourne, Australia
A great guy taken to early RIP Max. Our thoughts are with you and your family Tina sorry for your loss Hoeta and Jackie Simeon
Jackie Simeon, Gold Coast
To Tina and your family, it was a true honour to be a part of Max's journey. He was an absolute inspiration the way he approached every obstacle that came his way, and he could not have done that without you Tina. Take care of yourselves and treasure all the memories you have.
Julie Smith, Invercargill
Max your big wide smile and then a hug whenever we met will stay in my heart forever. Your fight is over and you are now at peace. Tina, Jahna, Michaela, Kyle, Isaac and families we will be with you all on Friday, may it help to know so many others are thinking of you.
Carol and Maurice, Awapuni, Palmerston North
Hey my smiley Uso, I am totally going to miss you. It was great to see and speak to you. It brought back so many good memories of us growing up together. It was the best. Love you man. My condolences to Tina and the Aiga/family.
R.I.P Max.
Johnny Wallace, From Invercargill but living in Auckland.
Dear whanau of Max. What a beautiful live stream. You are always remembered Max. Arohanui from the Poutu whanau, Paula and children Abby, Tai, Hemi and Carly.. Rest in peace my friend 💕🙏
Paula Poutu, Dunedin